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Dealing With Your Partner Who Is Not Out of the Closet Yet

Leaving the closet can be challenging, and it’s not easy for anyone. People are afraid of what their loved ones might think and whether they will accept them for who they are. However, what happens if you have already made this important step, but your partner hasn’t? Is there a way to go around this, and how can you deal with dating someone in the closet?

The Problem

Being in a relationship isn’t easy. Things can get even more difficult for people who are still in the closet. There is a chance that you are in a relationship with someone who still wants to keep everything a secret. Naturally, it is their secret to share, and they should do it when they are ready and on their own terms.

We all know that when you love someone, you want to share it with the world and let everyone know. Unfortunately,

Infidelity in the World of Gay Relationships

Many people believe that gay men are more likely to cheat. Is this true? Or is it just a myth people love to repeat? Let’s take a closer look at gay cheating and see whether long-term relationships are possible for gay couples.

Let’s Talk About Numbers

With all the problems non-heterosexual people are going through, it’s a common belief that everything becomes perfect once gay marriages are legalized. Everyone can get married and live happily ever after. However, LGBTQ+ people go through all the problems just like everyone else, and infidelity is something they struggle with as well.

The Health Equality and Rights Organization did some research, and they found out that 52% of gay and bisexual men had cheated on their partners. The study involved nearly 1,000 men. Interestingly, 45% of gay cheating boyfriends said they managed to keep it a secret. Of course, we can’t determine whether their

Best LGBTQ-Friendly Wedding Destinations

The Best Same-Sex Wedding Destinations

World-wide marriage equality, and equality in general, is the ultimate dream, isn’t it? Although many countries are on their way to legalizing same-sex marriage, some are so LGBTQ-friendly that they are bonafide world-class gay wedding and honeymoon destinations.

But which countries are the best places for LGBTQ couples to tie the knot?

Love Wins in the Netherlands

Gather ‘round baby gays! Let us tell you the tale of the first-ever country to legalize same-sex marriage. Back in 2001, the Netherlands granted the LGBTQ community some equality by legalizing same-sex marriage. The Parliament said it loud and clear — no more symbolic ceremonies or restrictions for same-sex couples!

Since 2001, the Netherlands made no difference between heterosexual and same-sex unions. LGBTQ couples could marry, divorce, and adopt children, just like every other couple.

And thus, a gay-friendly wedding destination was born. Same-sex couples still adore the

Must-Try Sex Tips From LGBT Couples

Experimenting with different sexual activities can be a bit awkward if it’s your first time. That applies to people of any gender! Also, there are many myths about LGBT couples’ sex lives as well as a variety of gay sexual advice that just doesn’t work. If you want to shake things up in the bedroom, check out some must-try sex tips from LGBT couples!

Choosing the Right Sex Toys

Sex toys are incredible tools that can maximize your pleasure. They can spice up your sex life, regardless of your orientation. However, LGBT couples can definitely benefit from certain LGBT-friendly toys and accessories that can deliver unforgettable experiences.

The first on the list is a quality bottle of water-based lube. Lube can boost pleasure during penetration, fingering, or masturbation. When it comes to penetrative toys, couples could try anything from dildos, double-headed dildos, and G-spot or P-spot vibrators. For penetrative play,

Adoptions: What Same-Sex Couples Experience

Is it still difficult for same-sex couples to adopt a child in the United States? What are some of the most important statistics regarding LGBT adoption? Even if the laws have changed for the better in recent years, the process may be tough to grasp at first. If you wish to become an adoptive parent, explore our guide on what same-sex couples experience during the LGBTQ adoption process.

Should You Adopt?

It’s been a few years since marriage equality was introduced legally into the U.S. In 2015, the supreme court ruled in favor of same-sex marriages. However, even after several years, adoption is still a big concern for many same-sex couples. So what happens when same-sex couples want to adopt?

Primarily, anyone who adopts a child does so out of love. Prospective parents are always aware that family means more than human biology. And nowadays, there is more diversity in

Types of People on Grindr

The Guys You’ll Meet on Grindr

Grindr came out in 2009, long before many of its users. It was supposed to be Tinder for gay men. And that’s exactly what it is, with members using the dating app to hook up with guys nearby. Basically, as Billy Eichner put it, Tinder is a lot of straight people pretending it’s for dating, but really using it for sex. On the other hand, Grindr is for gay guys who are not pretending it’s for anything other than meeting up and having sex.

Grindr devs may have initially envisioned they would facilitate meetups within the gay community where guys from different walks of life would get together for a picnic and romantic strolls. However, Grindr has turned out to be a different kind of app. You’ll be hard-pressed to point at someone who could proudly say: “I met my partner on Grindr.” That

What’s in a Name? — Changing Last Names in Same-Sex Marriages

Traditionally, in opposite-sex marriages, women took on the last names of their husbands. This practice is common in most countries, including the U.S. However, times have changed, and this situation can be a bit complicated for same-sex couples. So how do same-sex couples change surnames, and is the process any different compared to opposite-sex marriages? Have a look below to find out! 

Why Is It a Big Deal? 

Newlyweds always get confronted with the question of last names. In heterosexual relationships, the decision for a woman to change her surname often revolves around ideology. However, many say that LGBTQ couples who marry have to consider lengthy family nomenclature, as well as a lack of tradition. The matter can be quite complicated to some couples, especially if they’re not familiar with marriage laws or if they’re not set on their decision. 

Of course, same-sex marriages have been fully legal in

The Pros and Cons of Open Relationships

If you are looking for open relationship advice, you’re in the right place. We will go through everything you need to know about it and what challenges you and your partner may encounter.

Even though open relationships sound fun, there are a couple of things you need to understand if you want to enjoy yourself and have a great time.

Open Relationship

Open relationships, otherwise known as non-exclusive, are types of relationships that are based on intimacy but are not monogamous. This means that the couple is together, but there is a possibility that they will share intimate moments with other people as well. Unlike a polygamous relationship or polyamory, the primary focus is on intimacy, and the couple is not required to engage with other people — they can if they feel like it.

This type of relationship can include anything from marriage to dating. It is a contrast …

How to Strengthen Your Relationship If You Are in a Same-Sex Relationship

Whether you are in a lesbian or gay relationship, there are numerous ways to make it stronger. Here, we will go through the easiest ways to strengthen your relationship and make everything more enjoyable for you and your partner.

Being in a relationship should be pleasurable, beautiful, and full of love. So, take your time, and start building something incredible with your partner.

View Your Relationship Just Like a Straight-Relationship

One of the first mistakes gay couples make is to think that they have an unusual relationship. But in reality, they don’t. Each relationship is about people who are into each other and feel a certain level of trust and commitment. Heterosexual couples are no different than gay and lesbian couples, and you should always remember that.

Of course, we don’t say that it won’t be challenging. It is not a secret that society often deems gay relationships different, even …

Preparing for Your First Gay Date

Going on a date can seem scary, but there are a couple of things you might do to ensure that you and your partner have an incredible time. Of course, these aren’t set in stone. Each person is different, and you should do what you and your date find pleasurable and fun.

Date Location

One of the first things you need to do is plan a location for your date. Based on your personal preferences and what you know about your date, you should have at least some ideas. While it is possible that the other person would suggest something as well, it doesn’t hurt to be prepared and plan a few locations.

That doesn’t have to be anything fancy, and you should focus on a place where both you and your partner would feel comfortable. While the first impression is essential, you don’t need to go somewhere extreme and …